Make An Apology

  Make An Apology When I was a young boy and had done something wrong, my mother would remind me to make an apology.  I would readily do so but frequently felt as if I was defective somehow that I had done something that no one else had done.  It wasn’t a...

Focus on Good Energy

Focus on Good Energy I recently saw a father speaking to his son after a soccer game where his son’s team lost by quite a bit.  The son was discouraged and felt like a failure.  The father noticed that his son was frustrated and asked him questions.  He said: ...

Raising Defiant Kids

Raising Defiant Kids As a school administrator, I watched many teachers at some time during their career get into a tangle with kids over something the kids refused to do.  Working with defiant kids is much like working with contrary adults, and here are a few...